I am not suggesting by any means that you push for a diagnosis that isn't certain. No parent wants their child to be diagnosed with a lifelong disorder that will affect everything that they do. There is a tendency, however, among doctors to cushion the blow. Since there are no definitive tests for autism, diagnosis is as much art as science, and doctors would rather not have to tell you that your child is autistic. They may couch it in other terms - your child 'meets the criteria for autism' or 'displays autistic tendencies'. Many will tell you bluntly that they don't want to label your child, because labels have a tendency to stick for life, and if they're wrong, your child may never be given a proper chance. While their concerns are commendable, the truth is that it is far easier to reverse a diagnosis than it is to get one in the first place.
Getting appropriate treatment for your child depends on having an accurate diagnosis. If your doctor is reluctant to give you an official diagnosis, ask him why. Don't be afraid to ask for a referral to a specialist, or to a team for diagnosis. If, in the end the verdict is that your child does NOT have an autism spectrum disorder, thank whatever Powers you believe in, and move on, enjoying your slightly quirky, eccentric child. If, on the other hand, the doctors and specialists agree on a diagnosis of autism, you now have a tool that will help ensure your child the treatment that he needs.
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